Saturday, September 03, 2005

Change and Prep

Change.

No one seems to enjoy change. Those that do seem to thrive on it, I think are shifting focus away from what they really want to change. But Change is inevitable.
Take New Orleans and the Gulf Coast. It is going to be changed in a big way. I hear people worried that New Orleans will never be the same. But it never is the same. For all its ancient permanence, there is always something new popping up. It is not a living history museum, but a place where real people work, live and play.

Take for example the Old Absinth House. Absinthe was outlawed. The Bar of that establishment was moved down the street to grace a new place called "The Old Absinthe House Bar" of all things. I went down there not too long ago, and itself have been turned in to a daquiri shop.

The people of that region have endured epidemics, wars, slavery, riots, superbowls, sugar bowls, pirates, carnival and the advent of open container laws. They will get through this, but it will take time. Kind of related to change, our modern society seems to demand instant change.

Most of the complaints about the storm response had to do with how long it took. Granted it seems to me that it took a long time, but I have no frame of reference as to how long it *should* take. I remember when newspapers increased from a quarter to fifty cents. My grad school roommate complained that it was now "too expensive". Compared to what? Sure one hundred percentage price increase is high by any count, but we all should know the cover price is nominal compared to the real cost of printing and distributing the paper, which is bore by the advertisers.

Everyone wants universal health coverage, but they want it to be free. When pressed, not many people will admit that they want to pay for the ER visits of crack addicts arrested for public nuisance.

While I think of it, I do not want to get too far away from my original theme. Planning. Authorities knew this disaster was inevitable. It is quite possible that this disaster may have been on the back burner for many officials, including the president, that had many more items already on their plate. But please. I lived in the New Orleans Metro when I was in high school, and even then they were talking about the devastation a storm such as Katrina could cause. As recently as this year, I saw a show on how it would play out, as well as scenes from the he last great flood of the area.

I cannot blame the government alone. Who are these people but extensions of us, Americans. How many of us let our car's oil level drop below the add a quart line once in a while? How many of us let our check book balance approach a zero once in a while. Who has not run out of gas? People eagerly buy house trailers and move them in areas of anti-trailer weather. Young college boys worry that AIDS is not something that affects their age group, or take false relief that there is some drug therapy available now.

The Teflon coating that makes us, and us alone, to the inevitable shake of the dice is just as guilty of covering the government officials. Prevention is a hard sell. If it works, you never know it did. When I do n not have a mouth full of cavities, am I grateful of all the brushing and flossing I have endured? No, I hate flossing and brushing after every meal. I loathe it. No imagine if I had to pay an extra dollar for each time I did. But I never had to go to the dentist for filings. Would I make the connection, or would I think I had Teflon coated teeth?

Everyone in power hoped and prayed the inevitable would not happen on their watch. Much like the social security crisis. If you listen to the cures for that you will see a "solved until" date that is not all that far in the future. What are we going to do then? Well, I guess since we'll be gone we'll let the kids solve it.

That reminds me of something funny I saw shortly after Y2K. Someone complained that during the upgrade of the computer systems to handle 4 digits, they just laid the groundwork for a Y-Ten-K crisis in the year 9999.

I guess I am just saying we do not need a congressional investigation as to why the response was so muddled, we just need to get that area cleaned up, and make sure we are prepared for the next one. San Francisco earth quake is something a lot of people are in denial about. Supposedly, the last big quake involved a coverup of the true damage. It was white washed away, and many officials understated the true damage. On Cable I saw examples of still damaged buildings from that era. I also saw that the current code violates what scientists learned from the evidence as to what will work.

"We don't want to talk about that" is an insidious attitude. It implies an ignore it and it will go away fallacy that is specious at best. We need to grudgingly accept the reality of change. We are a remarkably adaptive race. In my lifetime I have adapted to new technologies with relative speed and ease. I can program my VCR, wait its not even connected anymore. I can program my cable box to save my favorite shows.

The New Orleans area will change. I hope it is for the better. I also hope they do not get into the "pretend nothing happened" version of restoration. An example of that is when they rebuilt the British houses of parliament, they kept them the same cramped size. As if nothing happened. No Luftwaffe, no Hitler, "sir could you move your elbow?"

--Motto--
Mens conscia recti
-a Mind concious of what is right.


This is the motto on the Phillips coat of arms.


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Monday, July 25, 2005

hot summer sunday

Yesterday I stopped by a sidewalk cafe and had a seat with some friends. Eventually, I noticed a hot muscular guy looking at me from down the walk. Everytime I looked his way, he was looking. But of course, he waas facing me, and it was natural for me to look to my left as that is the direction traffic flows from.

I was just admiring the view. Eventually he got up and asked if that was my cab and if I had a card. Had he asked for a ride only, I would not thought much of it, but asking me for a card, in case he ever needed a cab, was a bit of a tell.

Abouy thirty minutes later he called me and asked if I wanted to mess around! Did I ever?! He said he needed to shower, and I took that as a cue for me to do as well. I called him when I was done, and he even lives on my side of town. I got over there, and we chit-chatted a bit, and went up to his room. He was so hot, I cannot do him justice. But he was all about me. Apparently he is attracted to red heads, with a slightly unkempt appearance. He was a slave to my cock. We had soem beers fooled around, watched porn. we've got a standing agreement to repeat it. Hopefully, it wil happen again, soon.

--Motto--
Mens conscia recti
-a Mind concious of what is right.


This is the motto on the Phillips coat of arms.


PLEASE STAND BY...

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Wednesday, May 11, 2005

still hacking

I have half a dozen blogs going. I have been very busy with my job. So a lot of my thoughs have been spread around to the various locals. I try to keep this one real personal. If you want to read some of my cabbie stuff go to http://louiethecabdriver.blogspot.com/

--Motto--
Mens conscia recti
-a Mind concious of what is right.


This is the motto on the Phillips coat of arms.


PLEASE STAND BY...

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Wednesday, December 22, 2004

Shotgun Wedding

Years ago, I became an Ordained Minster in the Universal Life Church. I have performed now 3 weddings, officiating 2 Kentucky marriage certificates. The most recent was this week.

Monday afternoon I get a call from a friend and she asks me if I can marry her and her boyfriend. I ask when, and she says that day. I am puzzled, but I quized her and made sure she knew it was totally legitimate, and she did. She had the marriage certificate all made out already. She wants a real ceremony this summer and for me to officate then as well. Meanwhile, I said for her to come on over and be sure to bring two witnesses.

I had been cleaning house for a few days and am very glad I had. A couple hours later I got a call that they were on their way over. I slipped into a Tartan Kimono and of all things a Chinese hat. Never one to match much, I went for a beaded belt instead of the traditional Obi. It was a good thing I did, because they showed up with a video camera and dressed to the nines. I double checked with the groom to make sure that once the certificate is signed by me, and filed with the county, they will have to get a divorce to end it. he understood.

I was expecting a simple formality, and they then start asking for vows. Chronic trouble carrier, Gina agreed to write vows for the groom. They were odd and personal to say the least. The bride's were brief. They had a video camera and were videoing the process and my dog jumping up on them, and me doing the officiating, and the cell phone rings. It was the mother of the bride. She had decided to come after all, and was on her way. Soon the doorbell rings and I have a full blown wedding party in my living room. The best man, started complaing that he had to get back to work so we made sure we had all his information down, and he was free to go. We made small talk for a bit, and they were on their way.

You can call it a wedding if you like, I call it just another monday episode in my Reality Show.

--Motto--
Mens conscia recti
-a Mind concious of what is right.


This is the motto on the Phillips coat of arms.


PLEASE STAND BY...

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Wednesday, December 08, 2004

I have so many things racing through my head.

dreams, plans, ideas, desires

my adderall has got me in chatterall mode.

I cannot even stay focused on my non-focus.

I am switching to listology to make a list of things I want to do.
--Motto--
Mens conscia recti
-a Mind concious of what is right.


This is the motto on the Phillips coat of arms.


PLEASE STAND BY...

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Friday, December 03, 2004

Media Whoring

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Friday, November 26, 2004

True Bisexual Angst: part zwei.

For my recent birthday, I vowed to be open to my interest in women as well as men. Last night I blew two chances to express it. Both these women flirt shamelessly with me, and only know me to be the gay guy. The one that bothers me most is the super model looking one. She and I have a mutual friend that is a very sexy man. She is only here from New York once or twice a year. She was looking at "JM" and said he is so sexy. Later she and I were talking and I just teased "Is JM flirting with you?" and she said so, I then countered with, "cause I thought he was flirting with me!". I then leaned over and said but I know the secret of my getting with him. she leaned over and asked me. I said he doesn't sleep with guys alone, but he does sleep with couples. She looked at me non-plussed and said "We could be a temporary couple". Now, I did not follow up on that. What would have been a good response to that. Hell, I should not have even needed that in to let it be known. But I guess my question is. How to I discretely tell women that know me as gay, that I am interested in them physically?

--Motto--
Mens conscia recti
-a Mind concious of what is right.


This is the motto on the Phillips coat of arms.


PLEASE STAND BY...

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True Bisexual Angst

I am now playing with two married men that are fooling around with me behind their wive's back. I take the convenient attitude that it is mostly their problem, and if it was not with me it would be with someone else. It fits 'my friends with benefits' needs and there is little or no chance they'll want a relationship with me.

I do not think this is true swinging. In each case I ask if their wife would be interested in a 3way, and they look at me like I am from the Planet Claire.

I am not very possessive with my partners when I am with them, but usually insist on the rules for me apply to you as well. and Its not cheating if the rules allow it. I had one guy say he'd break up with me if I ever cheated on him, yet he cheated on me 3 times. What's up with that?!?

With the first guy, he's married since we had last done anything. I asked him to make sure it was ok with his wife. I did not want the guilt associated with messing up his marriage. He explained he was the same old same old he always was, and has already "fooled around" on his wife and it would be nothing new. The reason I rekindled the FWB relationship is pretty serious, and some readers may understand, some may not. I will explain it.

I had major surgery early this year. The Sex after surgery pamphlet, I received, explained when I should be able to resume sexual activity. But it cautioned I should do so with a regular partner, saying a new partner would cause undo stress, and may be problematic. My dilemma was, while I was not well, I had a very long dry spell. I had no regular partner, especially one I could call out of the blue and say "hey wanna fuck, to make sure I still can, without blowing up"?

Except this guy. I called him and explained the sitch, and he agreed - imagine that. I was his first guy ever, and now he is like a bisexual spokesmodel (LOL). This kind of bond is difficult to break. So anyway, he comes over one night, and we basically became 2 monkeys for a night, and I was happy to learn everything worked with no side effects.

ALSO, since then, I feel 21 years younger now and have had a lot of great sex since. Mostly of the kind the booklet warned against! The other married guy is a bi-curious ex-football player that seems to step out on his wife quite a bit. Well, I assume so since his profile says "single", but when I asually asked him if he was indeed married he said yes, with not much hesitation.

This article is more a treatise on my thoughts of this, that I just did not feel like blogging about. I read the comments on my articles, and would really be interested in what people have to say about what I am writing about. I love discourse.


--Motto--
Mens conscia recti
-a Mind concious of what is right.


This is the motto on the Phillips coat of arms.


PLEASE STAND BY...

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Wednesday, November 24, 2004

sex sex sex

I cannot believe the sex I am getting lately. Its like I am going through my second peak. Maybe I am. I had some major Os on saturday, burst a blood vessel or two. I think it was the nitro glycerine. Not sure if there has been studies on that or not.

--Motto--
Mens conscia recti
-a Mind concious of what is right.


This is the motto on the Phillips coat of arms.


PLEASE STAND BY...

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